So, there are so many videos or articles we have seen on how a guy should behave or talk to a girl. But girls can also sometimes say dumb things in front of the guys, which you should never say to a guy who you like or have a crush on.
1. Your friend is handsome
Seriously never say this! If you are with him in a relationship or even just a friend, he obviously would feel a little jealous and insecure, I mean you are with him and you are calling some other guy attractive, so he might think you are more interested in his friend.
That’s the same reaction we girls give when our boyfriends call someone else attractive in front of us.
2. “Its Nothing! I am fine”
When he is asking you; ” What happened ?” He has felt that there is something off with you and wants to know, and you reply with “nothing it’s fine “, Atleast appreciates the fact that he wants to know the reason. You can’t expect him to magically know your problem and fix it.
3. My ex use do it, the same way
Never compare him with your ex. When you say these words he starts to think that you still think about your ex when you are with him. And he might think that you still have a thing for your ex.
4. Why can’t you be like my friend’s boyfriend?
If your man says ” Why can’t you be like my friend’s GF?” Would you like it?
Exactly! No one likes comparison and everybody is different from each other, that’s there USP.
5. You are so awesome! How come you are still single?
If you don’t have the intention to make him your boyfriend, don’t pass such comments for him. And how would he know that In the mind he must be thinking ” Cause you don’t date me”. And not just to guys, you should never say that to a girl also.
6. You’re like a brother to me
Never ever say this to any guy! If you are thinking that you’re giving a compliment to him, by saying this you’re actually insulting him.
For him, that means he is not attractive enough or good enough to date, and you totally friend-zoned him that too by using really harsh words.
7. You’re not that strong, tell me to do that
Let’s accept that every guy has a little male ego, and they wanna look strong in front of their girls.
When you tell that they are not strong enough, you may hurt their male ego, am not saying that its good thing to have a male ego or anything but let’s admit they do have a little of it.
8. Look! She’s so pretty? What do think?
When you ask your guy about another girl, that if he finds her attractive. You make him in a position he doesn’t want to, If he says “yes, she is pretty”
You’ll start comparing her to yourself and ask what do you like in her. And if he says ” No” I don’t find her attractive ” You’ll again start comparing her features to yours. So the conclusion is, there is no right answer to this, so lets just never ask it again, please.